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      I finally pulled my soft cock out of Karen's ass & we layed side by side in each others arms kissing. When we stopped kissing to catch our breath I asked where Kathy was. She asked why & I told her she was usually at your hip not wanting to miss anything. Kathy was like a kid having candy & wanting more. Karen laughed when I told her this & told me that I was so right. Karen told me that her hubby called her and that she was needed at home for a bit. She was not happy leaving Karen told me. Kathy will be back later Karen told me. I asked how John was doing & Karen smiled telling me he is so sore he is in bed right now. I asked about Greg & Karen told me he was doing some chores for now. I said looking deep into Karen's eyes saying it is gust us then smiling. She smiled back. Her hands then went to my cock and balls. She told me to lay on my back & as I did I asked her if she was going to hurt my cock & balls. She asked-me if I wanted them hurt i told he that they were hers to with as she pleased. She squeezed my balls softly & I moaned softly. She then had me lay on my stomach which I did. She grabbed my cock and balls pulling them back hard to touch my ass cheeks. I moaned loudly & felt the bed move some. Then I realized it was Greg on top of me with his cock between my ass-cheeks. He kissed me on the ear telling me it was time to wear my asshole out. He was sliding his cock back & fourth between my ass cheeks. This got me hard again. Karen had a hold of my hard cock now bending it every which way. I moaned in pain as she did this to my cock. Then I felt my ass cheeks part and Greg shoved his well hung cock in my tight asshole. I screamed in pain into my pillow as he drove it hard & deep in my ass. I could feel my asshole tearing & my insides on fire. That is how Greg liked to fuck my ass. Finally I felt his balls pressing tight against my ass-cheeks. This told me that his cock was burred deep in my ass now. Karen had my cock in her hand and the other on my balls driving her fingernails into my balls. I cried and moaned as my ass, cock & balls were in such pain. Greg told me he loved fucking my ass raw & that I was to be his ass boy. That meant he was going to fuck my ass when ever he wanted it. Then he started pumping my ass for a while. Then he would stop & lean back hard with is cock all the way in my ass. This stretched my asshole even more & allowed him & Karen to see my asshole being parted by his cock. Karen bent down and kissed my asshole with his cock in my ass. Then he would pump me hard like this for a while & then lean forward pushing his cock deep in me. I was in such pain from my ass being stretched & my balls felt like my balls were on fire again. Karen let go of my cock and focused on my balls. With her fingernails now out of my balls she stretched my sac making my balls tight against the sac. Karen took her other hand making a fist & started pounding my balls. Soon my balls were red and swelling up again. I was to where I could not fight back anymore. So I just layed there letting them do there worse to my cock, balls & ass. Then Greg got off and rolled me on my back putting my legs up over my head by my ankles. Karen got up and I looked up seeing her tieing something to my ankles. This held my legs over my head & spread wide my asshole was totally exposed along with my cock & balls. Karen then grabbed my hard cock an pulled it down between my balls. I was in pain thinking my cock would break.Then Greg slid back in place sliding his cock deep in my exposed asshole. He went all the way in pounding me hard. Karen then grabbed Greg's balls & squeezed hard telling him to cum deep in my ass. Greg moaned saying yes Mame.. Soon Greg pounded me harder & was cumming deep in my ass. He left his cock buried deep in my ass exhausted.


Then Greg pulled his cock out of my ass finally laying beside me. Karen then moved in checking out my asshole, cock and balls. She had one hand on my balls and one on Greg's balls. She would take turns squeezing our balls making us moan. Finally she let go of my balls & focused on Greg's balls. She worked over Greg's balls big time finally making him pass out. She told me that he was worthless in bed. I was still tied up with my balls & cock exposed. She could see a little cum finally leaking from my sore asshole. Karen asked me how my asshole felt & I told her it was sore. She smiled & said it would be sore some more. She started inserting fingers in my asshole. She was up to four stretching my asshole. I was breathing hard & moaning loudly as she worked her fingers around my ass. Finally she inserted her thumb in my ass. Then she pushed & rotated her hand sliding her whole hand now in my asshole, I felt a big pop in my asshole & she had her hand now in my ass. She pushed and was now up to her wrist in my ass. She paused for a moment letting my ass adjust to her wrist size. She asked how I liked the feeling? I told her breathing heavily it felt different. Then she started  push her arm back & fourth. Greg's cum helped lube me up but she got some lotion applying it to her arm & my asshole. As she worked her hand in & out I could tell she was going deeper in my ass. I could feel my bowels spreading & stretching as she pushed further in. I could feel my bowels move around as she slid further inside my ass. She now had her arm up to my elbow. She pushed harder & harder finally getting her elbow in my ass. She was amazed of how far she was in my ass. She was up to her arm muscle but could go no further. She left her arm in my ass for a while chatting with me taking my mind off my ass. I looked down & could see how my stomach was pushed up where her hand & arm was. Finally she pulled her arm out & I could watch my stomach deflate. When she was out she moved to kiss me passionately & telling me she wanted more. She fucked my ass with her hand several more times. Finally she found it not hard to enter my asshole anymore. When she finished she untied my ankles letting my numb legs fall between her. It was late afternoon & finally Greg woke up shortly there after sliding off the bed in pain.



This left just Karen & I on the bed. She got up leaving me on the bed spread eagle. She went to the bathroom to wash her arm off. As she was in there Kathy walked in naked smiling at me. Then Karen walked in telling her the events that I went through. Kathy was a little bummed that she missed it. Then they both layed down beside me making sure I could not close my legs. I could not have if I had wanted to. I had no energy in my legs.The gals chatted for a little bit then they got down to business. They each grabbed a nut & pulled it towards them. Squeezing as they did I moaned & started to cry. They pulled & twisted at my balls and sac trying to pull them apart. Then as they each had one of my balls they pounded on my balls till they had my balls swelled big time. I as really out of it drooling & crying. I could not moan anymore from the pain. Karen told Kathy said it was time to focus on my cock. Kare let go of my sore numb ball but Kathy got in a few more hits on the one she had. Kathy said what did u have in mind? Karen said that they needed to make my cock as sore as I made there pussies. Karen told Kathy what she wanted to do to my cock. Kathy got very excited at her idea. Kathy took her one hand grabbing the base of my cock with & pushed down on my foreskin. With all 6 + inches  now exposed Karen grabbed my cock head leaving the shaft exposed. As each gal had a hold of my cock tight now Karen took the side of her hand, drew back & hit the shaft of my cock super hard.. I moaned out loud trying to draw my legs up but the gals were laying on my legs. I tried to grab my cock with my hands an the gals put my arms under them as well. I was helpless & the gals focused on my cock. They resumed hurting my cock shaft each taking turns hitting the shaft. I was crying uncontrollably from each strike. Kathy told me each time that she my cock was so worthless. Finally I was not able to form words as one gal hit my cock shaft & the other hit my balls. I have no idea how long they kept this up. I passed out from the pain eventually & when I woke I was alone. It was dark outside as I looked out the window. I was so exhausted & hurting so bad from my cock& balls. I finally was able to move my arm to my crouch checking my cock & balls. My cock was soft now & felt a little mishap-en in the shaft. My shaft was so sore. Then I checked my balls which were so swollen & lumpy. I then managed to side off the bed. I was bent over s I managed to walk to the door. I turned the corner and managed to make it to the living room where the gals & Greg were sitting.


Both gals were impressed I made it to the living room with out falling. Karen got up & helped me to the middle of the couch to sit down. Once I sat down the gals were anxious to check out my cock & balls. Even Greg was curious as to how my cock & balls held up to the beating. They all 3 were gathered around me now as the gals spread my knees & legs spread apart. This exposed my cock & balls totally. Karen & Kathy checked my balls carefully, then my cock. My balls were swollen,soft & lumpy. Karen told them it would not take much more before popping. Kathy liked the thought of this. Then Karen checked my soft sore cock. When she touched my cock I flinched a little. She started to stroke my cock getting my cock hard. As she did this I was moaning & crying from the pain i my shaft. Finally my cock was stiff hard. I looked down at my red cock. They were checking my hard cock. Greg said it had come close to breaking into. I was still hard & Karen bent down starting to suck my cock head. Kathy was cupping my balls now & started to squeeze them. This made my hips rise up forcing my whole cock deep in Karen's mouth. She was now sliding her mouth up & down on my cock. This was painful to my cock & Kathy was working my balls over with her fingernails digging deep in my balls. I leaned my head moaning & crying. I was soon cumming in Karen's mouth & she swallowed every drop. She popped her head up only after she made sure she had got every drop of my cum. My cock was still hard and then Greg grabbed my cock twisting it hard. I moaned and cried loudly. Greg was bending my hard cock backwards trying to make the cock head touch the base of my cock. Finally Greg stopped & let go of my cock. Karen finally persuaded Kathy to release the grip on my balls. I was finally able to catch my breath. The time was after 10pm. I had not had a chance to eat since I was up this morning. Karen got up & went to the kitchen. When she came back in the room she had a glass of orange juice & some pain pills. She handed me them & told me to take them. She told me to drink all the oj to. I finished I layed back to relax.


Greg told the gals that they still had time to play in the barn. The gals looked at each other & smiled. They got up & left telling Greg to bring me to the barn. Greg got up smiling & telling me the night was not over yet. He got me up helping me out of the house to the barn. When I walked in with Greg, Karen told Greg to bring me over & strapped me to the suspension bars. Then Karen ordered Greg to the other set of suspension bars & strapped him in as well. The gals then raised both of us off the ground making us stretched & spread eagle. Our balls & cocks totally exposed for pain. Kathy went to the cab-nit & grabbed a ball gag for Greg's mouth. She came back & inserted the ball in his mouth. Kathy the strapped the ball gag in place smacking Greg's ass hard. Then Kathy was in front of him. Karen set the timer & then we herd the ding. Kathy went to work on Greg's balls & cock. Greg started to scream & cry but was muffled by the ball gag. As Kathy worked on Greg, Karen leaned forward & kissed me passionately. She then whisper to me that my cock & balls were worthless. I shook my head agreeing & Karen smiled. She kissed me again moving even more passionate, her hands to my swollen balls & cock. She squeezed them softly & lovingly. She then stepped back & drove her fist up hard hitting my balls. I tilted my head hard with my mouth open but no sound came out at first. Karen drove my balls up & into my pelvic bone. I felt my balls go flat as her fist knuckles hit the pelvic bone with my balls in between both. Karen left her fist in there for a little bit  & then with drew it. I finally caught my breath & tilted my head forward crying. I did notice that my balls did not recover as quickly as they should. Karen did this till I passed out from it. When I woke the gals were over at Greg talking about his cock. Apparently Kathy had succeeded in breaking Gregs cock a little. Karen said that would be enuff for both of us tonight. Kathy had that bummed look on her face because she did not have a crack at me. Karen told her that I had to go home tomorrow evening. They both then helped Greg into a chair getting him out of his restraints. Then they got me out of the restraints and sitting in a chair. I was so tired & a little hungry. The gals took Greg up to the house & put him to bed. It was a little while & no one came back for me. I was so beat that I unknownly climbed on the anvil table to go to sleep. I was a sleep & was unknownly woken up by a weight hitting my balls. I found myself strapped to the table and Kathy at the controls. She had increased the weight on the hammer a lot. She had hit my balls several times & my balls were so close to popping again. Just as the weight hit my balls again I did not move. Karen walked in upset somewhat asking Kathy what the hell she was doing. Kathy told her that when she came to get me I was already laying face down on the table. She feft it was ashamed to let it go to waste so she strapped me in scurring my balls to the anvil. Karen looked at how much weight as on the hammer. Then she had Kathy raise the weight off my balls. Karen checked my balls carefully & found where both had started to crack a little. Kathy begged Karen for just one more hit. Karen reluctently agreeded but removed all the added weight. Kathy released the weight and as the weight hit my balls I went super stiff. I blew bloody cum all over my leg & stomach. I was out drolling. Kathy pressed down on the weight with her hands to help but it was not needed. Kathy then raised the weight & both ladies could see shere my balls popped. Kathy saw this and imediantly orgasumed. The gals undid my balls & restraints. They sat me up cleaning all the cum off of me. The gals then took me to the house and put me to bed. My head hit the pillow & I was out like a lite. My balls hurt so bad I did not care.    


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How to Kick a Guy in the Balls:


Susan Schorn

11/12/14 12:20pm

The groin shot: an attack so devastating that men have banned it from virtually every contact sport they engage in. Let's learn how to do it.

These days, only Muay Thai fighters strike to the groin—and they only do it in Thailand, where they wear groin protection made from fucking steel. But even armor plating isn't enough for western sportsmen; in addition to groin protection devices, they shield their balls with every rule, regulation, law, and covenant they can think of. The Unified Rules of Mixed Martial Arts, for example, list 31 official fouls, with myriad subtle variations on things like kidney strikes (only a foul if you kick with your heel) and elbows (disallowed if striking downward; OK in other directions). And then there's Item vii: "Groin attacks of any kind."

It's as if the mere idea of groin attacks disturbs the rule-makers so much they're incapable of describing them in any detail. "It's just too awful!" I imagine them wailing, fanning themselves with their copies of Chael Sonnen's autobiography. "Just make it all go away!"

And if the unthinkable does happen? According to MMA rules, "a fighter who has been struck with a low blow is allowed up to five minutes to recover from the foul as long as in the ringside doctor's opinion the fighter may possibly continue on in the contest." In case you didn't know, rounds in a UFC fight last for five minutes. So fighters who take a shot to the groin have as much as an entire round to recover from it. This strikes me as oddly dainty for a sport that allows you to legally knee your opponent in the face.

Even outside the rules of sport, in the world of parking lot brawls and bar fights, groin shots are taboo. They're considered "low," and "cheap," and "unsportsmanlike." To attack a man's testicles is to attack his identity, his virility. It also, so the rumor goes, hurts like holy hell.

All of this—the element of surprise, the psychological impact, the pain—make the groin a truly magnificent target in self defense situations. And yet we're all, men and women alike, conditioned by society to bypass the groin as a target, to pretend it isn't there, just as we're taught to pretend that rude bodily noises are never audible at important social functions. This makes me sad. Kicking a guy in the balls, while not guaranteed to incapacitate him (nothing's guaranteed in life), is definitely one of your better options in a serious physical assault—and I say that not only as a self defense instructor, but also as a certified Emergency Medical Technician. In terms of trauma, you get a lot of bang for your buck when you attack the groin.

So let's demystify this forbidden technique. Here's how (and why) you should kick a guy in the balls.

Step One: Have a good reason for kicking the guy in the balls.

The self defense model I teach from frames physical response to violence within the Ethic of Least Harm. Kicking a guy in the balls, as we're about to see, can cause a lot of damage. So you should probably reserve this technique for situations where your life or bodily autonomy are in immediate danger.

An interesting wrinkle for women is that such circumstances are statistically much more likely to involve someone we know, rather than a stranger. If you happen to know any MMA fighters, your risk may be even higher, because the sport, notwithstanding its queasiness about groin shots, has seen some horrific cases of domestic abuse. Take the former Ultimate Fighting Championship and Bellator fighter known as War Machine (née Jon Koppenhaver), who is currently facing 32 felony charges including sexual assault, strangulation, kidnapping, and attempted murder (two counts), for beating his ex-girlfriend Christy Mack until she required surgery. I think most reasonable people would agree that Koppenhaver, who has a history of attacking his girlfriends, is a guy who deserves to be kicked in the balls. (Though it's probably unnecessary at the moment, since he's in jail in Nevada.)

There's also Thiago Silva, who was cut, then reinstated, then cut again by the UFC after allegedly sticking a gun in his wife's mouth. UFC President Dana White initially took Silva back into the fold because "he was acquitted of all charges," which turned out not to be true; the charges against Silva were dropped when his wife, in quite understandable fear for her life, fled the country.

Personally, I feel that anyone who would stick a gun in a woman's mouth deserves to have his balls kicked, viciously and repeatedly. If you disagree, you probably deserve the same treatment.

By this simple litmus test of "Does he try to kill women?" lots of MMA fighters deserve to be kicked in the balls. Josh Grispi gave his wife a broken wrist and a concussion, and had his pit bull attack her. Will Chope slammed his ex-wide's head against the ground and attacked her with a knife. Other professional sports have their domestic violence issues, of course. MMA is hardly unique among pro sports for tolerating domestic violence while having the collective vapors over the very thought of groin shots. But the double standard is a bit more glaring with mixed martial arts because the sport, facing a shrinking viewership, is actively seeking to build its female fan base.

Well, as a fan of combat sports, I'm here to help them. I've illustrated this guide to kicking a guy in the balls with instructive video clips compiled from MMA fights. Many of them feature slow-motion replays of the ball-kicking. Ladies, sit back and enjoy yourselves.

Step Two: Understand the consequences.

There are worse things that can happen to a man than getting kicked in the balls. From a medical standpoint, being kicked in the balls certainly beats a gunshot wound to the chest. It's less dangerous than a spinal fracture. Definitely preferable to a depressed skull fracture. A blow to the balls can cause a lot of problems, but it's eminently survivable, especially if it's inflicted by another human. The really bad genital injuries—avulsions and amputations and de-gloving (don't Google that unless you have a strong stomach) are usually caused by machinery, not by people defending themselves.

So, in a way, attacking the groin is a compassionate response to a guy who's trying to kill you. Still, my EMT textbook notes that while injuries to the genitalia are "rarely life threatening," they are "typically extremely painful and could be quite embarrassing for the patient."

That's true for men and women; women have a lot of nerve endings in the groin, too. However, "injuries to the male genitalia," the EMT text goes on, choosing its words carefully, "usually produce excruciating pain and cause great concern to the patient."

That's probably an understatement. A good kick to the balls doesn't just hurt the balls. Upon impact, the spermatic plexus, a major nerve running through the testicles, carries the pain upward to the abdominal cavity, which is why victims of groin kicks often double over and assume a fetal position. They may also throw up or pass out. Crying is not unheard of.

Here, for instance, is a six-minute, 15-second video of a guy getting kicked in the balls. The kick comes at :03. The next 6:12 is the recovery. He doesn't even stand up until well past the four-minute mark.

Now, this is a terrible thing to happen in a sporting event. But it would be a great thing to happen in countering an assault. Think how far away you could be by the time your attacker was back on his feet. You'd have time to hail a cab, probably.

Here's a clip where the kick (from Adam Glenn) comes about 10 seconds in. Seventy seconds later, the victim, Tyler Baltz, still looks like he needs oxygen. Or smelling salts.

It's a bad day, all around, for a guy who gets kicked in the balls.

The particulars of the damage are even less appealing. Blunt trauma can cause testicular torsion, where the spermatic cord becomes twisted and blood supply to the testicle is cut off. This quickly results in ischemia or testicular infarction and tissue death—an extremely dangerous condition if left untreated. Testicular rupture is also a possibility, accompanied by hemorrhage or scrotal hematoma. (Fun fact: the Wikipedia page for Testicular Rupture is currently a "stub." No one wants to write about the topic, I guess.)

Less common, but more impressive, is testicular dislocation. It turns out those little buggers can be popped right up into the abdominal cavity if you hit them hard enough (though this particular outcome is more common from motorcycle crashes than one-on-one combat). And then there's a grab bag of other possibilities, like a lacerated urethra, or a penile fracture, when the tunica albuginea tears or ruptures, resulting in severe pain hematoma, and edema.

Here's another interesting outcome: Watch heavyweight Bellator fighter Eric Prindle axe-kick Thiago Santos in the groin. The kick comes at 0:18 seconds. The rest of the video is Santos writhing on the mat. Turns out Prindle's kick broke his pubic bone.

Pretty ugly, isn't it? It makes me glad I'm a girl, frankly. I've spent 15 years training in karate, an art developed primarily by men and therefore obsessively concerned with protecting the testicles, so in some ways I feel like I have an honorary groin; I'm so accustomed to covering it every time I begin or end a drill. It's a huge responsibility, and I'm thankful I don't carry that burden in real life. I don't think I'd cope well with the stress.

Not that I feel sorry for men. It's more than a fair trade, running the world, even if you have to keep one hand over your crotch at all times. But I do feel a weird sort of sympathy for the be-testicled. Such important parts of your anatomy, and you have to tie them up in a little purse before you can even pretend to fight. What a drag.

Except there's this: some 20 to 50 percent of female sexual assault victims suffer genital injuries. Often they have internal trauma, bleeding, pelvic fractures and urethral damage—injuries that can be deadly if not recognized and treated.

I believe that everyone's body deserves respect. And I also believe in consequences. Imagine if 20 to 50 percent of male sexual assailantssuffered genital injury. Isn't it possible that fewer men would be willing to commit assault?

I wonder how we could find out?

Step Three: Identify the target and choose your attack.

Simply put, we're talking about penis versus testicles. In a self defense situation, you should feel free to attack any target that's available, but keep in mind that some targets yield better results than others. If you have a choice, you want to go for the testicles. Kicking the penis isn't bad, necessarily; you can still do damage and it'll usually shake a guy up. It might even drop him, as Georges St-Pierre's kick does to Matt Hughes here.

But the balls? Cha-ching. A direct hit there is every bit as devastating as the MMA rules would lead you to believe. Take a look at this fight, where Alessio Sakar takes an instep kick to the groin from Ron Faircloth, and manages to land one more punch before going down like a tree. We then witness about 40 seconds of him rolling around on the mat, gasping in convulsive agony.

You can also strike the groin with your knee. The optimal angle is upward, rather than straight in, striking the balls from below and driving them up. As you can see from this brief clip of Mirko "Cro Cop" Filipović receiving the knee, the strike works best when the target already has one leg up, exposing the testicles.

Whether you kick with your knee or your foot, you want to follow through. Don't just tap. This isn't a warning signal; it's the full freight train. In most cases, the guy whose balls have been kicked reacts pretty much the same: A look of disbelief (sometimes there is a poignant moment of eye contact with their opponent, as if they are saying, "Dude, how could you?"), doubling over, hitting the mat, and then a prolonged period of existential crisis and convulsion. Vomiting is optional. Here's Wanderlei Silva nailing Rich Franklin.


Here, Yoshiyuki Yoshida, after catching one from Dan Hardy, is quickly carted off on a stretcher.

And you're not limited to just the knee or the top of the foot—there are plenty of other ways to kick a guy in the balls. If he's standing and you're lying down, you can drive your heel upward. His legs form a convenient runway that will guide your foot right to the target. In closer quarters, hand attacks work very well against the groin. Again, you want to strike upward if possible, and target the testicles, not the penis: Skip the grip; attack the sack.

As you can see here, punching straight, as Keith Hackney is doing to Joe Son, in may not be as effective.

Luckily, it's quite rare to be assaulted by someone wearing a cup.

Honestly, there's almost no bad way to kick an attacker in the balls. Foot, knee, hand; front, bottom, or in the library with a candlestick—the balls are vulnerable to just about anything you throw at them. (Oh, right: you can also throw things at them). And if by chance your first strike doesn't put your attacker on the ground, you're free to kick him again. Why not? If he's still there, his balls aren't going anywhere. Or you can diversify by striking other soft body parts like the eye or the throat, if you prefer.

Anything you like, until you've done enough damage to escape to safety.

Step Four: Don't let anyone tell you that you shouldn't have kicked the guy in the balls.

I spend a fair amount of time teaching women to kick men in the balls, and I've learned that this activity tends to generate controversy. Here, according to actual adults who have actually said these things to me, are some reasons you should not kick a guy in the balls:

1. It will make him angry.

I should hope so. I'm not sending him a friend request. If I kick him hard enough, there's a good chance I'll render him unable to act upon his anger. That's my goal. His feelings are his problem.

2. It will make him hurt you worse.

Statistics say otherwise. And anyway, he's already demonstrated his desire to hurt me. Why should I give him carte blanche to decide how muchhe's going to hurt me? I'd rather be an active participant in that decision-making process.

3. Groin kicks aren't really that devastating; I've seen lots of guys get hit in the balls and it hardly fazed them.

This response (almost universally from men) is so common I've come to think of it as "groinsplaining"—you can see it many of the YouTube comments in the videos linked above. These people rarely volunteer to demonstrate their own iron balls in a real kicking situation, but they confidently assert that men in general can shrug off all kinds of damage to the groin. All I can say is, I've seen two-year-olds take down grown men via the groin, and toddlers don't even have any training. I do. I like my odds.

4. We shouldn't be teaching people how to kick men in the balls; we should be teaching men not to do anything that would make us have to kick them in the balls.

Hey, that's a great idea! Do you have a detailed, research-based plan for teaching all men everywhere to behave themselves all the time? And do you have funding for your efforts, and buy-in from politicians and community leaders, and a network of trained, experienced instructors who can effect this change? If not, better get started on your grant proposal. In the meantime, I'll just be over here teaching people how to kick guys in the balls. That's what I do.

5. Telling people they should kick an assailant in the balls is the same as telling victims who didn't kick their assailant in the balls that they did something wrong.

No, it isn't. It's a practical way to reduce the number of future victims by giving them more viable options to disrupt and survive an assault.

Fact: We have the power to damage the bodies of men who try to hurt us. You're saying we shouldn't let people use that power. I'm offering people more choices; you're trying to take them away.

6. Kicking a guy in the balls just makes the world a more violent place.

Maybe, in the short term. But if it stops him from killing someone, or putting them in the hospital, isn't that a net win for non-violence? The Dalai Lama thinks so.

One in four women will have good reason to kick a guy in the balls at some point in her life. Luckily, it's not rocket science. Anyone can do it! And ball-kicking's efficacy is beyond dispute, as the men of MMA so nobly helped us illustrate here. Gentlemen, if any of you are reading this, and conscious: Cheers, and get well soon (the non-wife-beaters among you, anyway)

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1. Testicles - This is the exact and scientific pain. Excruciating agony erupts from within the centre of the testes and moves up in a crescendo to your brain. This sucks.

2. Balls - Getting hit in the balls usually applies to a inanimate object. The usual result is also pain - but it's in unison with a fair amount of shock.

3. Nuts - To get kicked in the nuts is to get kicked in the soul.

4. Nards - Nards are like the inner testicle. The pain is a deep, deep sorrow. Kind of like going through a break up.

5. Gonads - Gonads seem to swell almost IMMEDIATELY after impact. The pain seems to continue more than usual.

6. Family Jewels - This is a pain so bad you begin to wonder if you'll ever have kids again.

7. Cajones - This is like a passionate pain - a pain that will chew you up and spit you out without even the slightest of goodbyes. You remember this moment for many days.

8. Stones - Swift, and to the point.

9. Nads - Getting the ol' nads involved is horrible. No one understands the pain you feel. At least that's what you think.

10. Bollocks - If ever there was a feeling directly related to a balloon being popped it was this.

11. Clappers - This a quick flick that ends up tingling through your whole body. You think you've gotten away without much pain, only for it boil up inside you in one awesome, painful crescendo.

12. Crown Jewels - A hit into the crown jewels and you immediately question everything you ever believed in.

13. Privates - This is as nice as getting kicked in the testicles could ever feel. Still pretty shitty, though.

14. Goolies - You know that scene in (spoiler alert) 'The Departed' where you totally think Leo DiCaprio is going to get away and then he gets out of the lift and Matt Damon shoots him right in the face? Yeh, that's what getting kicked in the goolies is like.

15. Plums - That that starts sweet ends bitter, and that which starts bitter ends sweet. I don't really know if that relates to this, it just felt appropriate.

16. Knackers - Getting hit in the knackers is like an exhausted, tiresome slap on the back. But much much firmer.

17. Junk - This is the kind of pain that relates to absolute disdain. No one cares when you get kicked in the junk. It's all on you.

18. Sack - Sack-wacks are the worst, worst part of high school.

19. Dangly Bits - Essentially, someone using you as a speed bag.

20. Bollocks - This usually involved foot-to-ball contact.

21. Marbles - Your whole body shakes and you feel like you're gonna skittle across the floor in a thousand tiny pieces.

22. The Twins - Not as fun as it sounds.

23. Two Veg - Not as nutritious as it sounds.

24. Bullet bags - This happens so quickly you don't know if death would be a nicer result.

25. Baubles - Let me assure you, there is nothing holly OR jolly about this.

26. Acorns - Similar to nuts, only more drawn out.

27. Coin Purse - This is when someone with a wealthier background / more money than you smacks you in the testes.

28. Speed Bag - Speaks for itself.

29. Masculinity - A pain so real you lose all sense of self.

ruptered May 28
Keith Admin

A few tips on the New chat, please give them a try. You are likely to find an option that works very well for you.

From the website using the bottom bar (try using the browser ZOOM to make the chat box larger) -

Use the Full Page Chat, no more problem with small chat windows and makes scrolling easier, http://mybbfe.com/cometchat/cometchat_embedded.php -

Finally try out the mobile apps or the Desktop app. I think you will find one of these options will work very well for you.

As always your feedback is valued.



Keith May 24
Keith Admin

Links below about this story. If any of the sites members or visitors live in Aceh, all I can say is, be careful.

While I would have on problem with canning murderers, I find this a horrible act for most reasons especially on religious grounds.




another news story about it - here

Keith May 23
Keith Admin
has been posted.


myBBFE Gazette #12

Keith May 21 · Tags: newsletter, gazette
Silent Warrior f/m busting
This happened in December, but since I am new here and I will be leaving next week to head back to Thailand, I thought I would contribute. I will hopefully get a similar experience this trip. I hope you all enjoy.

Back in Thailand for a few weeks and I found the buster from last time. She had something in store for me that I had only seen in the videos and had never had happen to me personally. We met at one of the clubs and decided to head to my condo for some "football" (what she calls ball kicking). She really brought the heat this time. I knew I was in for it on the "warm up" snap kicks where she holds her thigh up and starts popping them harder and harder until I react and back up. She definitely has a lot more purpose now. We position to start the full swing kicks, and as always she asked "Are you sure?", then landed the first one. The force was MUCH stronger than I remember and I was humbled immediately. She then made her intention known to drop me and they did keep getting stronger and stronger. She had us swap positions...why I don't know, and then she landed it. It had so much force that my body tried to go fetal from impulse, and I dropped instantly. Instantly as in folded like cheap patio furniture if you sit on it wrong. Until this I would always go down slow while succumbing to the pain, but this was immediate. I caught my breath and gave her 2 thumbs up. This was a first for me and shocked me completely. After over 2 years in the fetish, a proper, involuntary drop. From this point on I was a mess. Flinching every time she approached me, and unable to brace for impact. She had great patience and picked her moments. I did move once causing her foot to slam into my leg and cut me open a little. Told her it was my fault. We were able to land a few more, each one knocking my breath out, and then the last brutal, unexpected one landed. As soon as I hit the floor, instantly as before, I said "I'm done" like 3 or 4 times. I didn't know what was up or down...all of my attention was focused on the pain below. It took me a bit to get back up. I have long since recovered and look to see her again this trip. I want to be able to brace for these killer kicks. It is going to take some practice, which of course I am up for anyway. I say that and she may just destroy me again. I hope so.

Keith Admin
I just completed a test of the video chat. 

In rooms, the video chat is a "broadcast" anyone in the room can view.

In private chat it is an audio/video call.

Both worked fine for me. The sender was in IOS app and I was using Chrome Browser.  Below is a pic with a RED circle around the places you go to access the video broadcast function.

Keith May 20
Mark Branded f/m busting

I was waiting nervously in my car. AW was on the way back from her training session. Martial Arts worryingly. I was going to get kicked in the balls by her. Exciting times. 

I saw a stunning girl drive by in a red Ford KA and a flurry of messages later we were saying hello.

Well, first impressions count. I'm not sure I made the best but what can I say about this young lady. Tall, slender, I am certain she could be a supermodel if she chose. Astoundingly beautiful and really friendly to go with it. She apologised for being sweaty from training and still in her gym stuff but I really liked it. 

We were both nervous and we just kept walking around the woods looking for somewhere to do some ballbusting and making idle conversation. I told her about how I developed my fetish. She confessed she was doing it mostly because she was strapped for cash. I just hoped she would enjoy it too. 

When the dog walker had cleared out of sight and we were reasonably sure we wouldn't get spotted we decided to brave up and get on with it.

So I got her to introduce herself and then kick me full in the balls in a clip I have now watched probably a million times. That kick nearly floored me. I've been kicked in the balls by 18 stone blackbelts with less power than she managed. I had been quite confident that I would be able to take a few on the trot. My mind instantly changed. I was impressed and thoroughly enjoying it. 

So, while I took a few seconds getting my stomach to uncramp. I asked about what she was and wasn't up for. We decided to keep my pants on. Which I'm fine with. A layer of protection. She demonstrated some of her teeping. Next time I think I'll ask for one of those in the stomach just to try it out. Then we decided that kicks, knees and hammer fists would be the order of the day. 

The kicks were brutal and she has since told me she was holding back a bit. So next time I expect to be on the floor rolling around. At which point she has full permission to keep hitting them, if she wants. 

The knees. Oh, The KNEES! IT really was the point of the kneecap driving into the balls. I'm gonna toughen up and take more of her wonderful accurate knees. I know she could go harder. While holding onto my hoodie and delivering perfect knees into my balls she explained she'd just been doing knee accuracy in training and having a little giggle to herself. I assured her I could tell and she wasn't falling into the trap of coming too close and using the thigh. She just smiled and nailed me hard. It was heaven. 

Next up we tried some hammer fists. Now I'm not quite sure whether she noticed or not but a few of these were in the dick. Which, In all honesty. gave my battered balls a little respite. But they were good solid hits and just watching her do it then feeling the pain is exactly what I fantasize about almost all the time so It really didn't get much better. 

We played around a little. I tried kneeling for a few kicks and we messed around, had some fun. 

Then we decided to finish with a brutal clip. A set of knees, a few hammer fists and a final hard kick. It was awesome. I was in delicious agony. The only problem was I didn't press record. So I had to take it all again. The second time I took the big kick to finish it I thought she'd broken me. I took a while to stand up after that. 

After that we had a hug and decided to call it quits. I had to go and she had to get back to her GF so we'd had our fun.

As we walked back to our cars the pain wore off. So we decided I needed one more.

Best decision of the day. It was amazing. Then we shook hands and I drove off in a happy  flood of endorphins. 

I later heard that She enjoyed it a lot more than She expected to. I'm happy about that.

Just need to find a time to meet up again.



Perfect marks. 


Sadly She moved to New Zealand Soon after and I will probably never see her again.

Still It was an experience I will always cherish. 

Mark Branded May 18 · Comments: 4 · Tags: ballbust first time woods
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